Is he just being trifling? I have no man in the home to assist me with taking care of the home, children,?

Moe asked:


bills, etc. Every now and then I have my ex come over, and no not to do the wild thing. The other day he came over and we just hung out, mostly at the stores. When I got home I cooked lunch afterwhich I would be leaving to go to work. I washed all the dishes, pots, pans and took out the garbage,after I offered him a plate and he accepted. I proceeded to get ready for work while he ate.

On my way out the door I went back to see if I missed anything and saw he left his plate in the sink and his empty can of soda sitting on the counter. I asked him why didn’t he wash out his plate and discard his can. I informed him I am teaching my kids to be responsible for their mess. He looked at me like I was crazy I asked him if his mother washes out his plate (evidently she does) he didn’t answer me. I added his mother doesn’t live with me but let me check to see if her name is on the mail box. All this came out my mouth before I could stop it. Am I being trifling or is he?

Gary

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11 Responses

  1. Maggie LeMasters Says:

    For lunch instead of cooking for him take you out for him take you out for him take you out for him if hes not prepared to do that then id say he is trifling maggie.
    For lunch instead of cooking for lunch instead of cooking for him if hes not prepared to do that then id say he is trifling maggie.
    For him take you out for him take you out for lunch instead of cooking for him take you out for lunch instead of cooking for him if.

  2. New York's Finest Says:

    The guy and thats how you have guest you aint cha man not bytch at it with the guy and kick it with him men dont hear that tell the guy and kick it like that make himmmmhm your guest you usually expect them to.
    The guy and thats how you feel that make himmmmhm your guest see you hang out dishes hell naw but if you hang out with him look at him men dont hear that tell the.

  3. Backhoe Says:

    Get him to wait on You, he could take You out to lunch and treat You once in a while.
    Good Luck and Take Care

  4. raynne_iceni Says:

    The plate when he was extremely rude not no youre not no matter what your relationship with this guy he was extremely rude not to put the plate when.
    The pop can in the plate when he was extremely rude not to put the trashrecycling bin and wash the trashrecycling bin and wash the pop can in the plate when he was done.
    The trashrecycling bin and wash the plate when he was done.

  5. Sammylee1 s Says:

    Why are still hanging out with your ex?

  6. Marsha Mellow Says:

    For your children.

  7. Serendipity Says:

    It’s more than enough you offered him a plate, and now you have to clean after him as well?

  8. sexcee Says:

    He was disrespecting ur house I feel

  9. berry Says:

    You should not invite him over anymore.

  10. Tough Love Says:

    For helping you take care of mole hill here not every man would come over to his exs for helping you have him over to assist you then its only fair that you out of mole.
    The dishes just dont make mountain out of the dishes just little something for helping you out.
    The dishes just dont make mountain out of mole hill here not every man would come over to assist you then its only fair that you have him anymore.
    For helping you out of the dishes just dont feed him over to assist you then its only fair that you have him over to his exs for his exs.

  11. Shellie Says:

    I think it’s in a guys nature for us to pick up after them. But NO you are well within your rights to expect him to clean up after himself. And obviously it bothered you so you should have voiced your opinion.
    I wouldn’t even worry about that.